Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

Hi All Bro,

I need some advise here.

I'm in the 30+, married no children wife relationship turn bad already.

Met an China FL 20yr . not the first FL i met, but this FL i met instantly fall for her, i don't understand why also, i know it is stupid really can't help it.

during her stay in sg 1 month, i book her for almost 15days. sometimes does not even do FJ or anything just chit chat.

now she back in china, and i flew to china to find her, now she regard me as his bf and i have told he to quit doing this kind of job, but she told me she have to do cause she has bought a house and need to pay month about 2k sgd. which i still dunno truth or lies.

she never ask money from me, even i offer my help. during my trip to china she pays for everything we eat, taxi and etc, except hotel i pay.

we still msg each other everyday. i was trying to get her out of this job.

maybe i'm blind but i can't help it. i also dunno wat to do next.

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

so simple dump your wife and go marry her :p

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

concoct a lie lor, say you want to marry her, meet want to meet your parents etc and see her reaction. ask her to move to singapore.
otherwise just break up. think carefully of what you want

and don't be a fool la, anyone with money FL will just regard them as bf.

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

爱情的力量，follow by 钱的力量。:p:p:p

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

Bro, you go to china got see the house or not. She ask for S$2K come to 10K in china currency per month, she very rich already.

Of course you go there small money she pay. Later ask you for 2K per month. Later call you bf so you head big big thinking is true then pay.

Not sure she did ask others like yourself that she knew to go visit and pay or not. Indeed good business for her.

Talk about converting her, at her age, not possible, she is a cheongster of her own in her own world. Maybe another 20 years down the road she may change her mind. You want to wait, by then you may bleed to death already.

Take Care

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

Bro ask urself how much you know about her? What she does for living in china?

Dun get KC in so fast...ask urself why u like or love her? R u prepared to get divorced? Are u prepared for a divorce? It is not so simple a divorce in Singapore. Think carefully; dun use little head to think.

Furthermore she in china and u in sg, are u sure u r the only one?,too many such stories around....do a search before making up your mind

Like what h88 said, if a fl can be trusted, pigs can fly up tree.

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

Agrees with Bro D777 says...
Go to study the below links 1st before writing anything else in this forum or else alot of repeated mistakes and regrets all started of being kena KCed... :cool:

http://www.sammyboyforum.com/showthread.php?t=116417

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

have you heard of 放长线 钓大鱼?
it is LUST & not LOVE. skip her & move on

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

Not another case :eek:

TS you scroll through SBF, you will see tons of stories like yours. What happen in the end? I think we all know :rolleyes::rolleyes:

Never trust a WL, just fuck and fuck off, it might be hard to break up with the WL right now, but you still gotta do it.

A WL is a WL, period. For fucking and not for loving. (dosent matter whether she got take money from you or not)

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

what u gonna do with ur marriage? divorce? patch up? bo chap?

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

At 20 yrs of age , she became a FL !

When she reach 30 yrs old , she would be reading Lianhe Wanbao while you are furiously banging her ....:eek:

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

bro my advice.

Shoot raw inside her a few times and see what she say.
If she is okay, means she is serious about you.

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

I don't think raw is a good measure ley
Sh can let u raw but not serious about u too

This is so untrue.

Re: Fall into Relationship with a China FL
 

For me I feels that if a woman is willing to sell her body for $$$...there is simply no love inside her left....just my 2 cents worth....

If I were you, I would just find a decent woman and divorce the current wife if the marriage is really beyond redemption...else if the marriage can still be salvage just work on getting ur marriage back to the pink of health again.....:D:D:D