[Footman]

Originally Posted by parrotkid

I caught my wife heavy petting with a man. A man I know. The thought of her being toouched by other men keeps appearing on my mind until I cry all the time and am suicidal. I love my wife very much. I am very hurt by what she did. I have never felt so hurt in my life before. She is in her mid 40s. I am 42. What should I do?

Forgive her and carry on and try to forget?
Divorce her?
We have two kids.

Don't need to be suicidal cuz your kids still need you.
Play as much as possible outside, be it paid or non-paid