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Originally Posted by ArtWolf

I had been in a relationship with a PRC for 4 years. Know her at KTV joints. She told me she failed in business and she was in debt and you can see all her history in wechat. I kena KC and support her financially. She was in and out of singapore in between. FINALLY, she manage to get a WP working in a factory in singapore for past 1 year. Lately, she started forcing me to give more money deposit and 加会 to 买房 for our "future". I am so in huge hesitation.

Any brothers has such same experience ?

Bro, just say NO.

Paradoxically, she will like you a lot more, at least in her subconscious mind.

Good luck!

Originally Posted by bignehneh

Shanghai is a place where you don’t even need to go to any sleazy massage or ktv. Hot girls are everywhere. Lol! When u free, can pm me. Depends on the type of girls you want la. Haha! Some things I always do:

(1) join some golf lessons and act act play very fucked up. Ask fellow students for advise. Haha! Then free go driving range and practise then sometimes play golf together etc…
(2) I like to hang out at their massive Chinese bookstore (yeah! Sounds idiotic if we are in Singapore but their bookstore is huge with many single ladies/ milf going there to buy cookbooks)
(3) Do a lot of domestic travel can meet those power ladies who travelled a lot. Sometimes a hi or bye ok business/ economy class helps. Don’t pick those cock weekends to travel because you kana all the noisy family. I love business trips because you can always exchange namecards without fail. Can always say fake fake need IT services, or can talk business but don’t say u need sex services.
(4) I do personal trips to hang Zhou. Suzhou. Wuxi etc and sometimes hang out at some pubs. Can pick up those single tourists also
(5) Sometimes sian those leadership staff at the hotels you stay in. Haha! Some without family ones or married but husband working elsewhere are horny also
(6) Got some nice place to hang out like peacehotel jazz bar (met many milfs who loves music) and some tea drinking places.

Bro, remember the success rate not high one but if you have plenty of time, why not? If you hook 1, usually the lady will stay with you for a while and you have less opportunities to hunt again. I quite fortunate as I have an ang mo expatriate as my sifu when I was there. Haha.

He is a senior leader in his 60s but stayed in China for 30+ years. He said sianing girls is like grooming talents for your companies. Don’t worry to nurture as many as you can concurrently. After a while, dispose some if they can’t make it. Keep the good ones. Cast your net. Haha! I thanks him for my good 10+ years in China. I still call him at times to chit chat.

I do miss China at times and I try to return as and when I can. But unfortunately, pandemic kills all the travelling. Cheers!

Bro, excellent pointers. Thanks for sharing.

May I look you up if you're in China after the pandemic?

Cheers!

Originally Posted by ps7432

Bro ts, i would siam far far. A girl who truly loves you will not want to see you spend money. In fact they will spend money for you. I had threw plenty before to WL..multiple ktv girls...all of them only want your money. Got one more serious one, but end of day also end up with fu er dai back in china. Unless you are prepared to be in china forever, otherwise just run. Or unless you really want to help that girl you love and do not mind treating it as gf money. But just make sure you f her as much as possible. All the ktv girls told me the same to me, that if they like you enough, they would not want you to spend a single cent on them. Quite a few of the ktvs girls i know are attached back in china and come out to work because their bfs or husbands back in hone forced them to. But again those are my own experience and when I looked back i regretted spending so much for nothing. The one in china whom i did buy a property for, i got no regret since I f her a lot and did once truly love her. Thread carefully. Do not let your emotions rule over both heads unless you are ready to lose that money as what other bros advised.

Bro,

Tks for your advice.

The person who cares less has the most power in a relationship.

Cheers!